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Well, I did it. On May 1st I kicked out Brady. Things have steadily gotten better. I planned to do it at the end of May, but I couldn’t take it anymore. I was going to wait so that the school year could end, baseball and softball would be done, and Chloe would be finished with dance. It just didn’t work that way!! My last post was April 25th and you could tell just how over it I was. On April 30th, a Friday, Brady and I went out separately which never happens. He said he was going to the movies with a coworker and did invite me, but there was no way in hell I was going to do that. I went and saw Vanessa instead. Missed her! She could tell how miserable I will. Told me I just wasn’t myself. I ended up staying at her house until around midnight. I figured Brady would be home and pissed off that I wasn’t there. Nope! I got home and he was nowhere to be found. I heard him come in around 1am and get on the couch, but he never spoke to me. The next morning I got up early because it was the paper show for the Shriner’s and I wanted to meet my family at the lodge for the pancakes and to help out. It was raining. Pouring actually! This was the beginning of the Nashville floods. He was an ass when I left for the lodge. I wasn’t gone too long because we couldn’t really do the paper sale because of the rain. When I got back home we got into a HUGE fight. I don’t really remember why. I think it had something to do with the fact that he was still asleep at 10:30. There was something he was supposed to do, but honestly can no longer remember what it is. I launched into a rant about how much I couldn’t stand him. He yelled and told me to do something about it. Daring me. So I did. I told him to get the fuck out. Immediately! He argued that I had to let him stay until he found another place. I told him he was insane. Anyway, lots of screaming and such and then he left. He’s been gone since! I went to my sister’s the next morning because my street was starting to flood and I didn’t want to be stuck here. He did contact me that Sunday and I told him the road was flooding and he couldn’t get home. By Thursday I changed the locks. The month of May sucked because I was coaching Chloe’s softball team and BJ and Mason were on the same baseball team. Also, Chloe had dance. It was all worked out mostly between myself and his ex wife Jenny. She and I have actually gotten really close because of this. She is currently going for custody again and I really hope she gets it. She needs those kids and they need her. Brady sucks. He signed the divorce papers pretty easily and it is supposed to be final on September 27th. 48 more days!!! Also, I got a new job. I’m on my second week so far. I like it I guess. The pay is not that great. Also, it’s really easy. I know that sounds like a good thing but I’m pretty bored. Feeling kind of unfulfilled. I’m just thrilled to have work though. Things are falling together. I have a new job with great benefits. I’ll soon be divorced. I have an AMAZING 11 year old. Things are actually pretty good. Sooooo, that was a pretty big update. Maybe I’ll get back here before another 3.5 months? Oh! Completely off the antidepressants! yay me! Once the crazy husband was gone I no longer needed. Yay! So now I’m just taking the birth control pills and the vitamins. Both of which I pretty much forget all the flippin’ time. Took two birth control pills a couple of hours ago. I need that head slapping smiley!! Also, I’ve lost about 25 pounds and lowered my cholesterol 33 points. Yay me! Now! I need to get down 75 more points and lose another 20 to 40 pounds. Big range huh? We’ll just see how motivated I am I guess. 20 would make me very happy. If I wanted to go for 50 I could be high school size, lol. I think that’s a little ambitious. Wonder if any of you still check this? Probably not but I don’t blame you. It’s been months! Sorry!
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